Your comment "if shes not out of her cage she will literally
scream for hours, and I dont mean once in a while I mean
every day.(yes I know she's a too)" struck me. Our conure
would scream for hours also if he wasn't out of his cage when
we are home. So he is out of his cage when we are in house
(except at night when we cover him at bedtime). He is content
to return to his cage when we leave the house. Maybe you could
make certain your birdie gets alot of time out of his cage.
Now if he is one those birds that likes to climb off his cage
and walk around on the floor, now that's another problem.