Ok, I will start by saying I have not owned a bird, but have thought about it many times and read many books on training and caring. A friend of mine was given a large greenwinged macaw by someone and has found out quickly that she can not care for it. I believe he is already at sexually maturity but do not have him yet so am not sure about his age as she has not taken him to an avian vet yet. He seems to like me more then others as he will "up" on my arm from his cage at times. Other times though he will nip when I am near the cage. He is just very untrained at this point.I am wondering if I should make this my first bird or not? Also, are there videos to help with visual techniques that you all recomend. I have thought about the birdtricks.com videos but have heard they use food deprivation training which I will not use. My parents took away fun stuff when I was bad, never food and I am not willing to do that Thanks for any advice you all can givew.