Hello I have a 6mo old sun conure. when he was 4mos we got him and my daughter was holding him he pooped on her arm and it scared her so she jumped up and my little Ishee fell to the floor and lost 3tail feathers. He wont come to me when i put my hand out to him now he only gets on my shoulder if he can make it before he thinks I'll grab him. That incident is the only thing I can think of as to why he is afraid. Can anybody tell me how I can get him to trust me again.