Re: Thanks so much![]()
Posted by Cheryl on 6/16/05
The vet said I
> shouldn't kiss him or stroke his back since this would lead
> to sexual confusion (which made me think he would mature
> faster than he apparently will).
You can kiss your bird. I kiss mine all the time. You just
need to be careful of saliva, as yours can make your bird
ill. Kiss the top of the beak, or his/her head...You can
also stroke your bird on it's back...Just be careful, once
the bird matures, to not stroke him/her towards the bottom
back area, as that could be taken as sexual.
One person said to hold
> him only at eye level,
If you start having behavioral issues, then you can lower the
bird to below your eye level. A bird caged higher than your
eye level will feel like the "top" bird. No reason for the
bird to not be allowed to nuzzle into your chin...The
shoulder thing, I covered in my first post, and as Michael
said, some birds are fine allowed on a shoulder...It needs to
be stopped IF behavior problems start, but as long as YOU are
the one to PUT the bird there and take him down, there
shouldn't be a problem, becasue he will not see it as HIS
choice.
Even though I know he must be
> nervous and scared with all the new things and people
> around him, he hasn't bitten me or anyone in the family, or
> even tried to.
That's great. I believe that you can tell a lot about a
birds personality while young, but do remember that a baby
bird is like a human baby...and will have all the same things
to deal with. You are in the honeymoon stage now...As the
bird matures, hits adolesence, then sexual maturity, your
ralationship may change...and when it does, it does NOT mean
the bird doesn't love you, just means that he is growing up,
as he would in the wild...Getting more independent and
thinkign for himself. That is why it is so important to
instill good habits now, instead of trying to solve problems
later on.
You should be teaching the bird to step up now, and practice
it each and every day. Don't stop just becasue the bird has
it down...I still do step ups with Darby.
>
> Should I get a play stand yet, or should I wait for him to
> grow up a little bit more? I let him hang out on the top of
> his cage and on the window ledge, and he seems to like it,
> but other than looking out the window there's not much for
> him to do up there.
Yes, get a playstand. Have it in a different room than his
cage is in. OPurs is in the room where we all are at night,
and where the TV is. His cage is in the front room where it
is more quiet. It is important for him to have an area to
call his own that is neutral...I DON'T recommend letting him
hang out on his cage top...When he gets older, he may get
cage territorial...many Poicephalus do.
I've got toys hung in his cage, but so
> far he's ignored them--
Mine has at least a half dozen toys in his cage, and 3 or 4
on his stand. For Poicephalus, a swing of soem sort is
important, and they love boings as well. The boing is rope,
so be sure to keep your birds nails clipped and check for
fraying of the rope from time to time. Have toys made of
chewable wood, rope, sisel, leather, mine also love acrylic
toys, and love to swing upside down from toys that have
chain. They are, as a group, very playful, so household
things are fun too...Plastic tops off of water bottles, for
example. Mine like bells, but I get toys with bells that are
large enough for the species, bot those little christmas
bells..They are dangerous. If the bells have a flat,
smallish clapper in them, I remove it before giving the toy
to the bird.
Is far as his hanging out on the window sill,if this is his
only wondow, put the playstand there instead. Make sure your
window sill is not painted with any paint containing lead,
and know that he WILL start chewing the sill into shreds...