I am confused by my new parrots behavior. He/she is a 4 month old- weaned - hand feed Alexandrine. She is very shy and is clearly not comfortable with hands - she is not happy to step up and acts alarmed when approached. HOWEVER when she is held she is so content she falls a sleep. She will let me hold a stroke her for hours. Why is she so confortable in one way with contact and so shy with another. What can I do to help her? Lynne