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Re: paul/hawkhead lady nicki

Posted by melinda on 2/25/07
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    On 2/24/07, Nicki wrote:
    > On 2/24/07, Melinda wrote:
    >> On 2/24/07, electra wrote:
    >>> hi paulo-
    >>> i gave the lady your #' she should be callin:)
    >>> let me know if you get um....i told her i would let her
    >>> use the crate you sent Howard in. So you can have it
    >>> back:) Have a good Sunday...............
    >>> electra
    >> as part of your neurosis de privacy, did you and Paul not
    >> exchange email addresses?
    >> Please tell me you did electra, after all you got a free
    > bird.
    >> this kind of conversation is really not necessary even on
    > the
    >> social board.
    >> stop already
    >> will I see you in church tomorrow?
    > --------------------------------------------------------
    > Dearest Melinda
    > We've all experienced jealousy at some time in our lives,
    > although the reasons why each of us gets jealous and the
    > emotions we feel may differ.
    > According to clinical psychologist Ayala Malach
    > Pines, "jealousy is a complex reaction to a perceived threat
    > to a valued relationship or to its quality". Unlike envy, it
    > always involves a fear of loss and three people.
    > Jealousy is a "complex reaction" because it involves such a
    > wide range of emotions, thoughts and behaviours.
    > Emotions - pain, anger, rage, sadness, envy, fear, grief,
    > humiliation.
    > Thoughts - resentment, blame, comparison with the rival, worry
    > about image, self-pity.
    > Behaviours - feeling faint, trembling and sweating, constant
    > questioning and seeking reassurance, aggressive actions, even
    > violence.
    > Jealousy heightens emotions, making love feel stronger and sex
    > more passionate. In small, manageable doses, jealousy can be a
    > positive force in a relationship. But when it's intense or
    > irrational, the story is very different.
    > Overcoming jealousy takes patience and hard work. If you feel
    > your jealousy stems from issues in childhood, you may find
    > counselling useful. If you're recovering from an affair,
    > you'll need to deal with those issues first.
    i see that your therapy has paid off immensely. kudos